G Spot Positions: Favorite 3 Positions to Hit Your G Spot During Sex

So, the first step in hitting your g spot during sex is to know where it is! For a refresher course, check out this page on the g spot location. You also may want to try a finding the g spot exercise first.
From here on, we're going to assume that you (and your partner) know where your g-spot is, and how to best stimulate it to give you pleasure.
Now that that's all taken care of - lets focus on g spot positions. The first step is to recognize that the g spot, or g spot area, is small and not always in the same place. So, throughout your sex you'll both need to be communicating. What works, what feels good, what doesn't, a little to the right, a little to the left, etc.
In the beginning, as you explore different g spot positions, its likely best if you agree not to have orgasms. We've found this makes it easy to have a sense of exploration and play.
And, without further delay, here are our three favorite g spot positions. Enjoy!



Ride Em Cowboy (Woman on Top)

 

I have to say there's something so sexy about a woman being on top, in charge of finding what feels the best. Really, this position is ideal because it allows the woman to control the depth, intensity, and speed. It gives you the ability to play, and explore, and notice how much more pleasure comes from subtle differences.
As you are on top, experiment with what feel's best to you. Move, shift, tell your partner what feel's good, rock back and forth, take it deep, keep it shallow, etc. This will likely work best if you are already aroused and hot. (This is true with all these g spot positions)
Now, as the guy in this position, you're not just laying back passively (thought that is fine to do - just not now!). What will help your partner most is if you tilt your pelvis as much as possible. The more you can do this, the better.
You'll also get a great workout! : )
Unfortunately, if you are anything like me, you'll get super tired super quick. In the beginning we used to use alot of pillows to try to angle my hips. Lately, we've really been enjoying something called the wedge, its a liberator shape. This small shape puts your pelvis in the perfect tilted position without you having to do any work.
I know it sounds crazy, but the small, subtle positioning this enables, makes all the difference.

Doggy Style (Crouching, Man Coming from Behind)

 

This is one of our favorite g spot positions. Not only do you have great g-spot access, but there?s just something so primal andsexy about & ! from behind.
Now, guys, in this position you can take it easy and let her do all the work. In this case, ladies, use your thighs to press back and find the depth, thrust style, and position that works best for you.
However, guys, if you want to be more active, you can easily adapt this position. Push your woman down, and lay more on top of her (still coming in from behind)
Now, for the best g spot stimulation, position your legs outside of hers and put more of your weight forward, so you are riding her from up higher.
This puts your penis on more of a downward angle, and helps you hit her g-spot more directly. You can also experiment with having her legs more open, or more closed to see what feels best.
We've also been using the liberator shape - the wedge - in this position too. We found if we put that underneath my girlfriend, it gives her hips a particular tilt that totally amp things up.

Your Highness (Man Kneeling or Standing, Woman's Legs on His Shoulders)

 

We love this sex position. With many g spot positions you can't look each other in the eyes. With this one, we recommend it. Also, when you want to hit the g spot, having your legs high and wide is the secret ingredient. Sometimes putting your feet on your partner's shoulders can be the most comfortable (its also just super sexy!)
Now, you can do this position in lots of ways. You can do it off your sofa, a chair, or your coffee table (we won't tell!). Or, you can modify it to work off your bed by kneeling vs standing. The only real key to this position is that your partner is angled upward, with her legs spread wide or on your shoulders. You can achieve this combination in lots of different ways (be creative!)

 

 

G-spot 101

Although the G-spot is surrounded by controversy and conflicting theories, there is far to much evidence to deny its existence. Many women swear that it gives them an orgasm unlike any other. Some even ejaculate fluid and go into uncontrollable spasms from a G-spot orgasm.

Ok, so it exists...What is it? Why all the hype? Do all women have one? And most importantly, how do you find it? Below you’ll find the answer to all of these questions and more.

A quick G-spot history lesson

The G-spot was brought to public attention during the early 1980’s by the book “The G Spot and Other Recent Discoveries About Human Sexuality”. It was written doctors John Perry, Beverly Whipple, and Alice Kahn Ladas and based on the discoveries made during their research on pelvic muscle disorders.

They named the G-spot after German doctor Ernst Gräfenberg who first hypothesized its existence in the 1950’s. He wrote about “...an erotic zone on the anterior wall of the vagina” that “swells out greatly at the end of orgasm”.

The book was an object of much criticism from scientists and gynecologists of the day. However, despite the lack of scientific evidence, the G-spot has been widely accepted by sexologists and the public.

What is the G-spot and where is it located?

The G-spot is a small area about two inches inside and on the front wall of the vagina. It’s about the size of a quarter and may feel a bit rougher than the surrounding tissue. It’s made from erectile tissue and will swell up and enlarge with stimulation.

As we mentioned earlier, there is some debate about what the G-spot actually is. Some researchers say that the G-spot is the urethral sponge, also referred to as the female prostate. The urethral sponge is a cushion of tissue that sits against the vaginal wall and surrounds the urethra. The fact that the Skene’s glands (responsible for female ejaculation) are contained in the urethral sponge supports this theory.

Another line of thinking is that the G-spot is simply the back end of the clitoris. This theory is supported by the fact that the clitoral nerves extend along the vaginal walls and into the body.

The truth may be somewhere in the middle as the urethral sponge and the clitoral nerve are closely interconnected. Unless you’re a scientist, this shouldn’t even matter much anyway. In the end, all that matters is knowing how to find and stimulate the G-spot. Fortunately we’re going to help with that too.

G-spot orgasm

Women describe G-spot orgasms as deep, whole body experiences. These orgasms last much longer than clitoral orgasms, and the vagina muscles spasm and contract much more violently. Many say that G-spot orgasms are the most powerful type of orgasm and hit like rolling waves of pleasure. They are sometimes followed by a euphoric sensation that may last up to a half an hour.

G-spot orgasms may cause her to eject a varying amount of clear, silky fluid through her urethra. This is most commonly referred to as female ejaculation.

 

Top 10 Male Turn Ons

It is an undeniable fact that a man is powerless to the charms of a beautiful woman. All men, however, have a different definition of beauty. Regardless of how a man defines what he finds attractive in a woman, there are several common male turn ons that all men would agree to. The following is a list of the top ten male turn ons:

1. Women who leave something to the imagination

As unbelievable as it sounds, men often prefer to be teased with a little taste of what is to come. This would include a woman who dresses to show a little skin, but not too much. For example, a female who offers the slight glimpse of a thong or a bra strap is often more seductive than one who is scantily clad. Women who maintain a certain degree of class are always more attractive to men than women who openly share all their secrets!

2. She is not afraid to admit that she loves sex

There is nothing wrong with enjoying the act of sex, and there are fewer things more attractive to a man than a woman who can admit this! Many men have a major obsession with sex, so a sexually confident woman with a healthy sex drive is a big turn on for them.

3. She has a strong sense of self-esteem

It is said that the dream of all men is to have a woman at his beck and call; au contraire, most men are looking for a woman who can think for herself. Men are hugely turned on by a woman who believes in herself and has the confidence to speak her mind. Men tire easily of women who constantly need to be reassured. A woman with self-esteem is more challenging and keeps men on their toes!

4. She knows how to talk dirty

It may sound clich , but men love it when a woman talks dirty! For men, hearing a woman describe what she wants sexually is a turn on. Women who effortlessly talk dirty are exciting and hold the promise of amazing sex.

5. She loves her body

Men love to look at women's bodies. It is no secret that men love a great pair of breasts or a lovely backside. Moreover, men love a woman who appreciates what she's got and is not shy to show it. It is difficult to be turned on by a woman who is ashamed of her body, but a woman who embraces her attributes will always win the attention of eager men!

6. She has an accent

You have probably heard this one before and you may find it hard to believe, but true enough, an accent is a male turn on. Regardless of whether she is from Scotland or Spain, her accent will be perceived as exotic to a man. It is especially sexy when she is describing what she loves to do in bed!

7. She has a wicked sense of humor

A woman who can be funny is very attractive and approachable. Men are turned on by a witty woman; one who can dish it out as well as she can take it! A sense of humor adds playfulness to the relationship and always keeps them coming back for more!

8. She is adventurous

Women who are willing to try new things and live on the wild side will always win the attention of a man. Showing a free-spirited nature is sexy and a challenge for any man!

9. She is independent

Men do not like to think that every woman is seeking a lifetime commitment. Men are turned on by women who can have casual relationships, without attachment. An independent woman is self-sufficient and free to have fun!

10. She looks like a centerfold

We can all fantasize, can't we? Men know that the majority of women do not look like Pamela Anderson, but that doesn't keep them from wishing they could hook up with one who does.