Top 10 Male Turn Ons

It is an undeniable fact that a man is powerless to the charms of a beautiful woman. All men, however, have a different definition of beauty. Regardless of how a man defines what he finds attractive in a woman, there are several common male turn ons that all men would agree to. The following is a list of the top ten male turn ons:

1. Women who leave something to the imagination

As unbelievable as it sounds, men often prefer to be teased with a little taste of what is to come. This would include a woman who dresses to show a little skin, but not too much. For example, a female who offers the slight glimpse of a thong or a bra strap is often more seductive than one who is scantily clad. Women who maintain a certain degree of class are always more attractive to men than women who openly share all their secrets!

2. She is not afraid to admit that she loves sex

There is nothing wrong with enjoying the act of sex, and there are fewer things more attractive to a man than a woman who can admit this! Many men have a major obsession with sex, so a sexually confident woman with a healthy sex drive is a big turn on for them.

3. She has a strong sense of self-esteem

It is said that the dream of all men is to have a woman at his beck and call; au contraire, most men are looking for a woman who can think for herself. Men are hugely turned on by a woman who believes in herself and has the confidence to speak her mind. Men tire easily of women who constantly need to be reassured. A woman with self-esteem is more challenging and keeps men on their toes!

4. She knows how to talk dirty

It may sound clich , but men love it when a woman talks dirty! For men, hearing a woman describe what she wants sexually is a turn on. Women who effortlessly talk dirty are exciting and hold the promise of amazing sex.

5. She loves her body

Men love to look at women's bodies. It is no secret that men love a great pair of breasts or a lovely backside. Moreover, men love a woman who appreciates what she's got and is not shy to show it. It is difficult to be turned on by a woman who is ashamed of her body, but a woman who embraces her attributes will always win the attention of eager men!

6. She has an accent

You have probably heard this one before and you may find it hard to believe, but true enough, an accent is a male turn on. Regardless of whether she is from Scotland or Spain, her accent will be perceived as exotic to a man. It is especially sexy when she is describing what she loves to do in bed!

7. She has a wicked sense of humor

A woman who can be funny is very attractive and approachable. Men are turned on by a witty woman; one who can dish it out as well as she can take it! A sense of humor adds playfulness to the relationship and always keeps them coming back for more!

8. She is adventurous

Women who are willing to try new things and live on the wild side will always win the attention of a man. Showing a free-spirited nature is sexy and a challenge for any man!

9. She is independent

Men do not like to think that every woman is seeking a lifetime commitment. Men are turned on by women who can have casual relationships, without attachment. An independent woman is self-sufficient and free to have fun!

10. She looks like a centerfold

We can all fantasize, can't we? Men know that the majority of women do not look like Pamela Anderson, but that doesn't keep them from wishing they could hook up with one who does.

The Top 5 Erogenous Zones of a Female

If you're floundering in the bedroom and your girlfriend is moaning for all the wrong reasons, these tips will point you in the right direction.
Gentlemen! If you want to get your girl moaning for real instead of faking it, you're going to have to put a bit of work in. Firstly, a male can achieve orgasm within 2 - 3 minutes when stimulated by another partner. Where as a female can take up to 15 minutes to climax.
If you know for a fact that you can't keep going for that long by pure intercourse alone (and lets face it, if you're doing that, you're having sex, not making love) then you are going to have to stimulate her body with foreplay instead.
Now before you panic and freak out, all of this can be done with your tongue and hands. I guarantee you will become a better lover in the bedroom AND you really will give her orgasm after orgasm.

The top 5 female erogenous zones

The neck
Apart from being sexy and attractive, the female neck is perhaps one of the most sensitive areas of her body. Softly kissing this area from her shoulder to below her ear (while at the same time massaging it with your tongue will send tingles and pulses up and down her spine. Keep at it and she will be breathing heavily in a very short period of time.

The ear lobes
Sucking ear lobes isn't for everyone. Some girls get the tickles when you do it but others simply adore it. While you're there you can whisper sweet nothings in her ear. Close facial contact is what she likes so this is a good way to do it if you're fed up with kissing on the lips. Also massaging her ear lobes with your fingers from time to time can be very soothing.

The nipples
On a par with the neck for sensitivity, the female nipples become hard and sit up right when stimulated with your tongue. Don't forget to give both breasts even attention and also kiss down in between her breasts as you work your way between both of them. If she hasn't grabbed your head by this stage and held it into her bosom, something's badly wrong.

The belly button
Working your way down her body, the belly button is another area you should stimulate before full intercourse. Kissing this area with your lips and tongue will cause vibrations that will vibrate through her reproductive area and begin to stimulate her G spot.

The G Spot
Ah the G spot. This holy grail legend of the female anatomy can be tricky to find. So if the chance arises, ask her if she has already found her G spot and let her point you in the right direction.

As a general guide, most female G spots can be found on the roof of the vagina (that's the side closest to her stomach.). It's about the size and shape of a 2 pence coin and can be found about 4 inches in.

Extreme caution should be taken when stimulating this area with your tongue or fingers as a female can quite literally lose control of her limbs. Don't be surprised if you get kneed in the face or get elbowed as she moans in ecstasy. It should also be noted that not all females have a G spot, so don't be alarmed if you both can't find it. As you have seen there are plenty of other areas of the female body that can be stimulated in the art of love making in order to help her climax.

Doing a combination of all these things will leave her begging for more and you will be a better lover for it. Experimentation is the key to find out what works and what doesn't as everyone is not the same.

As you can see, a true female orgasm involves the stimulation of her whole body and not just simple penetration. Taking the time to show care and attention to her needs will put you so far above any other lovers, she may have had that you may find it tricky escaping from the bed. I know I have ;-)

How to Use Foreplay

Foreplay is meant to entice and tease, stimulating your partner until they are begging for more. As with many aspects of the sexual experience, there are physical and mental facets. Many couples intellectually "click" immediately and are ready to explore sexual experience together. It is important to engage the physical senses during foreplay. Here are some examples of how you can explore and expand your foreplay, and enhance the sexual experience.There are many ways that a man can give and gain pleasure by learning how to touch a woman the way she wants to be touched. Talk to her, ask her what she likes and she will tell you! She has smooth curves and soft skin. When you touch her in the right way, you will see her body react to the pleasure you are giving her. Watch closely and soon you will discover how to please and excite her.

1. Step 1
   Kissing is an often over looked part of foreplay. When you kiss a woman's lips, it gives her an electric rush that can make her more passionate and physical. Move away from the lips and kiss the eyelids, cheeks, earlobes, neck and then move back to the lips. She will let you know when to kiss the other parts!
   
   
   
2. Step 2
   Most women love to have their hair stroked and played with. Run your fingers through it. If she is playing with it, that is your cue to do the same.
   
   
   
3. Step 3
   Give attention to fingers and toes. These are finally getting some of the attention they deserve. They are sensitive and sensual, as are the palms of the hands and soles of the feet.
   
   
   
4. Step 4
   Explore her lower back. The small of a woman's back is often an area that is in dire need of massage. Rubbing this area gently will release stress, and adding a few kisses will entice her even more.
   
   
   
5. Step 5
   Learn her other soft places. Behind her knees, under her arms, inner thigh and the hollows of her neck and shoulders. Gentle stroking and kissing of these areas can be extremely pleasurable.
   
   
   
6. Step 6
   Explore her breasts. This would seem an obvious choice to explore during foreplay, as they are visually stimulating to men. However, men can spend too much time in this area. Over stimulation can make the breasts numb, or irritated. Play with the breasts and nipples, but then move on, with the hint that you will return. She will be waiting.
   
   
   
7. Step 7
   Play with her buttocks. Many men think of a back massage, but she will also enjoy her buttocks being rubbed, squeezed and played with. It relieves stress and she will anticipate your next move even more.
   
   
   
8. Step 8
   Known for its intense pleasure, the G spot provides one of the varieties of orgasms that women are able to achieve. Located between the cervix and pubic bone, manually stimulate this area by inserting a finger (or two) palm up, using a "come hither" motion with the index finger. Some women enjoy a "blended orgasm" which can be reached by stimulating the clitoris (with the thumb) and G spot simultaneously.