3/17/11

Tips for getting along with others easily - Compatibility tips.

aries astrology love tipsAries (March 21-April 19)
Slow down. Stop being so impatient with others. Ask for help when you need it. And don't hesitate to take the first step in mending a broken heart. Your tendency to procrastinate may let down who are depending on you.

taurus astrology love tipsTaurus (April 20 - May 20)
Offer fewer explanations or excuses. Others know that you are a person of integrity and accept you for who you are. Stop being so hard on yourself. Start acting with your head and not your heart.



gemini astrology tips for loveGemini (May 21 - June 21)
Be more attentive to the needs of that person closest to you. You don't always have to be so blunt and so "honest" in your observations. Be aware that others value your opinion and respect you. Choose your words carefully.


cancer astrology love tipsCancer (June 22 - July 22)
You have the tendency to smother someone who is dear to you. Back off a little and you will discover that they will be drawn closer to you. As you tend to wear your heart on your sleeve, others are attracted to your honesty and forthrightness, but remember that not all people react the same to your unique personality. 

leo astrology love tipsLeo (July 23 - Aug 22)
Although you are anxious to please, and you are known for your generosity, you do have a tendency not to hear what people are saying. Thus, some believe you are only interested in fulfilling your own needs. Once you begin to pay attention to the signals that others are sending you, you will find personal relations improving dramatically.

virgo astrology love tipsVirgo (Aug 23 - Sept 22)
Don't discount the wisdom of others as you tend to think your opinion is the only one that counts. And spend more time planning, developing strategies. It will help you in your personal relations. It appears you often do things on the fly, sometimes regretting your actions soon afterward, and then spending twice the time undoing the mess you've created.

libra astrology love tipsLibra (Sept 23 - Oct 22)
Value friendship, peace, and reflect on your accomplishments. Once you stop being so hard on yourself, you will be more at ease with others and not focus so heavily on their flaws, mistakes, etc. You are incredibly loyal and expect the same from others, but you should relax your standards a bit, as you are often disappointed.

scorpio astrology love tipsScorpio (Oct 23 - Nov 21)
You should be more open to democratic decision-making as you tend to value your opinion infinitely more than those close to you. Although you have very loyal admirers, they do shy away from you at times for fear of being overpowered. You intrigue people because you are at times shy and introverted, but when you come out of your shell you seem capable of running the world.

sagittarius astrology love tipsSagittarius (Nov 22 - Dec 21)
You are gregarious, fun loving, willing to put yourself out for a friend, but you have been disappointed at times by a lack of reciprocation from those close to you. You have a large heart, a generous spirit and adventurous soul, but for everything you have accomplished, you feel you have basically gone it alone. Some people say you are paranoid, but you just see life as it truly is.

capricorn astrology love tipsCapricorn (Dec 22 - Jan 19)
Giving, loyal, ambitious and picky. When you make a friend, it is for a lifetime, but sometimes you can be too demanding, too incessant, too stubborn. You want to do it your way or not at all. Others seem drawn to you, admire your integrity, experience and potential. But you seem to drawn back when close to real success, almost as if you are too happy with the your present status.

aquarius astrology love tipsAquarius (Jan 20 - Feb 18) 
While usually looking at the broader picture, you are prone to overlook the obvious. Take a closer, more definitive look at your important relationships and you may discover you have better friendships than you think. If you are a normal Aquarius, you have underestimated the depth and loyalties of those closest to you.

pisces astrology love tipsPisces (Feb 19 - March 20)
An enigma to many, you often are unsure of what you want in a relationship. You tend to be very flexible and have little tolerance for those who are rigid and are unwilling to hear "the truth." You attract a wide variety of friends while managing to keep everyone happy. But you seem particularly drawn to those who have a slight "edge" to them.

2/1/10

How to Read Women's Body Language for Flirting

Flirting is when two people subtly show their romantic or sexual interest in each other. Flirting may take place in many social scenes, such as clubs, bars, restaurants and meetings. For men, a large part of flirting is being able to read a woman's body language to see if she is interested or not. Learn how to read women's body language for flirting while on a date or other social scene.

  1. Step 1
     
    Pay attention to a woman's physical contact while flirting. This is one of the most important aspects of a woman's flirting body language. If a girl touches you, whether playfully or for a practical purpose (such as brushing something off of your shirt), she may be expressing an interest in you.

  2. Step 2
     
    Watch how women face you when they're talking or flirting. A woman that is interested will face you when in a conversation. If a woman leans forward slightly, she is more interested than if she leans back.

  3. Step 3
     
    Observe how a woman uses her arms. Crossed arms are generally a negative body language sign while flirting with women.

  4. Step 4
     
    Notice how women make eye contact while flirting. A sidelong glance or constant, steady eye contact while you're talking to her may mean she is interested in you. Eye contact expresses interest, alertness and attentiveness to what you're saying. If you're flirting with a girl and she looks down or away, it may mean she would rather not talk to you.

  5. Step 5
     
    Be confident when flirting with women and reading their body language. Women's body language is not the sole, determining factor when flirting with a girl. Sometimes, women express body language that does not lie in sync with what they're really feeling. Be friendly and a true gentlemen while flirting with women to be the most successful at finding a date.

    Tips & Warnings
    • Don't give too much weight to women's body language while flirting, as some women are not as expressive as others.

1/29/10

Top 10 Female Turn Ons..

When it comes to sexual turn ons, men and women are very different. It is not a myth that women are attracted to a man who is comfortable with his emotions. It is also true that many women are on the hunt for an attractive man who knows how to treat a lady right! The following is a list of the top ten female turn ons gathered from hours spent listening to women tell it like it is.

1. A man who can make you feel like a woman
For many women, respect is the number one thing that they look for in a man. Not only is it a prerequisite, it is also a big turn on! A man who respects a woman and appreciates her for who she is has the power to make her weak in the knees.

2. A man who is not afraid to take charge
Women like strength and not just physical strength. Women like to think that their man can take charge of any situation. Giving a woman a feeling of protection is endearing as well as arousing.

3. A man who can be dominated
All relationships involve a power dynamic. A man can be strong with his woman, but must also be able to surrender some of that power. A woman likes to take control sometimes and feels sexy when a man is ready and willing to respond to all her demands.

4. A man with a sensitive side
Contrary to popular belief, women are not looking for a man who wants to talk about his emotions constantly. Sensitivity is a good thing but more important is to be emotionally well-balanced. One of the biggest female turn ons is having a man who is not afraid to show his emotions.

5. A man who can hold his own
A man who is unable to take care of himself turns women off! Being self-sufficient reassures a woman that she will not have to handle everything in a relationship. Men who are overly dependent are perceived as weak and that is not an attractive quality!

6. A man who is successful
Success does not necessarily mean wealth. Women feel comfortable with the fact that a man can support himself and his family. Most women are looking for a man who is ambitious and passionate about life. A successful person appears more confident and confidence is always a turn on.

7. A man in uniform
Sorry men, but this is not a myth. Women love a man in uniform! Although firefighters and policemen top the list, most likely any uniform will do!

8. A man with a great body
Women are not nearly as fixated on this one as men are, but women are also turned on by a man with a fantastic body. Women have differing ideas about what is physically attractive in a man, but wide shoulders and a cute backside doesn't hurt!

9. A man with a brain and a sense of humor
Although it may be fun to have a fling with the male version of Barbie, women are more turned on by men who are smart and funny. A dim-witted dullard gets boring fast. Women want their fires lit by someone who can tell a good joke and can challenge them intellectually.

10. A man who is good with kids
Many men dread this one, so thank goodness it is number 10 on the list. Women are not necessarily picturing you as the father of their children, but it is endearing to see the nurturing side of a man. Men might not want to hear it and women might not like to admit it, but a man holding a baby is beautiful and a turn on!

1/13/10

G Spot Positions: Favorite 3 Positions to Hit Your G Spot During Sex

So, the first step in hitting your g spot during sex is to know where it is! For a refresher course, check out this page on the g spot location. You also may want to try a finding the g spot exercise first.
From here on, we're going to assume that you (and your partner) know where your g-spot is, and how to best stimulate it to give you pleasure.
Now that that's all taken care of - lets focus on g spot positions. The first step is to recognize that the g spot, or g spot area, is small and not always in the same place. So, throughout your sex you'll both need to be communicating. What works, what feels good, what doesn't, a little to the right, a little to the left, etc.
In the beginning, as you explore different g spot positions, its likely best if you agree not to have orgasms. We've found this makes it easy to have a sense of exploration and play.
And, without further delay, here are our three favorite g spot positions. Enjoy!



Ride Em Cowboy (Woman on Top)

 

I have to say there's something so sexy about a woman being on top, in charge of finding what feels the best. Really, this position is ideal because it allows the woman to control the depth, intensity, and speed. It gives you the ability to play, and explore, and notice how much more pleasure comes from subtle differences.
As you are on top, experiment with what feel's best to you. Move, shift, tell your partner what feel's good, rock back and forth, take it deep, keep it shallow, etc. This will likely work best if you are already aroused and hot. (This is true with all these g spot positions)
Now, as the guy in this position, you're not just laying back passively (thought that is fine to do - just not now!). What will help your partner most is if you tilt your pelvis as much as possible. The more you can do this, the better.
You'll also get a great workout! : )
Unfortunately, if you are anything like me, you'll get super tired super quick. In the beginning we used to use alot of pillows to try to angle my hips. Lately, we've really been enjoying something called the wedge, its a liberator shape. This small shape puts your pelvis in the perfect tilted position without you having to do any work.
I know it sounds crazy, but the small, subtle positioning this enables, makes all the difference.



Doggy Style (Crouching, Man Coming from Behind)

 

This is one of our favorite g spot positions. Not only do you have great g-spot access, but there?s just something so primal andsexy about & ! from behind.
Now, guys, in this position you can take it easy and let her do all the work. In this case, ladies, use your thighs to press back and find the depth, thrust style, and position that works best for you.
However, guys, if you want to be more active, you can easily adapt this position. Push your woman down, and lay more on top of her (still coming in from behind)
Now, for the best g spot stimulation, position your legs outside of hers and put more of your weight forward, so you are riding her from up higher.
This puts your penis on more of a downward angle, and helps you hit her g-spot more directly. You can also experiment with having her legs more open, or more closed to see what feels best.
We've also been using the liberator shape - the wedge - in this position too. We found if we put that underneath my girlfriend, it gives her hips a particular tilt that totally amp things up.




Your Highness (Man Kneeling or Standing, Woman's Legs on His Shoulders)

 

We love this sex position. With many g spot positions you can't look each other in the eyes. With this one, we recommend it. Also, when you want to hit the g spot, having your legs high and wide is the secret ingredient. Sometimes putting your feet on your partner's shoulders can be the most comfortable (its also just super sexy!)
Now, you can do this position in lots of ways. You can do it off your sofa, a chair, or your coffee table (we won't tell!). Or, you can modify it to work off your bed by kneeling vs standing. The only real key to this position is that your partner is angled upward, with her legs spread wide or on your shoulders. You can achieve this combination in lots of different ways (be creative!)

 

 


1/4/10

G-spot 101

Although the G-spot is surrounded by controversy and conflicting theories, there is far to much evidence to deny its existence. Many women swear that it gives them an orgasm unlike any other. Some even ejaculate fluid and go into uncontrollable spasms from a G-spot orgasm.
Ok, so it exists...What is it? Why all the hype? Do all women have one? And most importantly, how do you find it? Below you’ll find the answer to all of these questions and more.

A quick G-spot history lesson

The G-spot was brought to public attention during the early 1980’s by the book “The G Spot and Other Recent Discoveries About Human Sexuality”. It was written doctors John Perry, Beverly Whipple, and Alice Kahn Ladas and based on the discoveries made during their research on pelvic muscle disorders.

They named the G-spot after German doctor Ernst Gräfenberg who first hypothesized its existence in the 1950’s. He wrote about “...an erotic zone on the anterior wall of the vagina” that “swells out greatly at the end of orgasm”.

The book was an object of much criticism from scientists and gynecologists of the day. However, despite the lack of scientific evidence, the G-spot has been widely accepted by sexologists and the public.

What is the G-spot and where is it located?

The G-spot is a small area about two inches inside and on the front wall of the vagina. It’s about the size of a quarter and may feel a bit rougher than the surrounding tissue. It’s made from erectile tissue and will swell up and enlarge with stimulation.

As we mentioned earlier, there is some debate about what the G-spot actually is. Some researchers say that the G-spot is the urethral sponge, also referred to as the female prostate. The urethral sponge is a cushion of tissue that sits against the vaginal wall and surrounds the urethra. The fact that the Skene’s glands (responsible for female ejaculation) are contained in the urethral sponge supports this theory.

Another line of thinking is that the G-spot is simply the back end of the clitoris. This theory is supported by the fact that the clitoral nerves extend along the vaginal walls and into the body.

The truth may be somewhere in the middle as the urethral sponge and the clitoral nerve are closely interconnected. Unless you’re a scientist, this shouldn’t even matter much anyway. In the end, all that matters is knowing how to find and stimulate the G-spot. Fortunately we’re going to help with that too.

G-spot orgasm


Women describe G-spot orgasms as deep, whole body experiences. These orgasms last much longer than clitoral orgasms, and the vagina muscles spasm and contract much more violently. Many say that G-spot orgasms are the most powerful type of orgasm and hit like rolling waves of pleasure. They are sometimes followed by a euphoric sensation that may last up to a half an hour.

G-spot orgasms may cause her to eject a varying amount of clear, silky fluid through her urethra. This is most commonly referred to as female ejaculation.

 



11/28/09

Top 10 Male Turn Ons


It is an undeniable fact that a man is powerless to the charms of a beautiful woman. All men, however, have a different definition of beauty. Regardless of how a man defines what he finds attractive in a woman, there are several common male turn ons that all men would agree to. The following is a list of the top ten male turn ons:


1. Women who leave something to the imagination

As unbelievable as it sounds, men often prefer to be teased with a little taste of what is to come. This would include a woman who dresses to show a little skin, but not too much. For example, a female who offers the slight glimpse of a thong or a bra strap is often more seductive than one who is scantily clad. Women who maintain a certain degree of class are always more attractive to men than women who openly share all their secrets!


2. She is not afraid to admit that she loves sex

There is nothing wrong with enjoying the act of sex, and there are fewer things more attractive to a man than a woman who can admit this! Many men have a major obsession with sex, so a sexually confident woman with a healthy sex drive is a big turn on for them.


3. She has a strong sense of self-esteem

It is said that the dream of all men is to have a woman at his beck and call; au contraire, most men are looking for a woman who can think for herself. Men are hugely turned on by a woman who believes in herself and has the confidence to speak her mind. Men tire easily of women who constantly need to be reassured. A woman with self-esteem is more challenging and keeps men on their toes!


4. She knows how to talk dirty

It may sound clich , but men love it when a woman talks dirty! For men, hearing a woman describe what she wants sexually is a turn on. Women who effortlessly talk dirty are exciting and hold the promise of amazing sex.


5. She loves her body

Men love to look at women's bodies. It is no secret that men love a great pair of breasts or a lovely backside. Moreover, men love a woman who appreciates what she's got and is not shy to show it. It is difficult to be turned on by a woman who is ashamed of her body, but a woman who embraces her attributes will always win the attention of eager men!


6. She has an accent

You have probably heard this one before and you may find it hard to believe, but true enough, an accent is a male turn on. Regardless of whether she is from Scotland or Spain, her accent will be perceived as exotic to a man. It is especially sexy when she is describing what she loves to do in bed!


7. She has a wicked sense of humor

A woman who can be funny is very attractive and approachable. Men are turned on by a witty woman; one who can dish it out as well as she can take it! A sense of humor adds playfulness to the relationship and always keeps them coming back for more!


8. She is adventurous

Women who are willing to try new things and live on the wild side will always win the attention of a man. Showing a free-spirited nature is sexy and a challenge for any man!


9. She is independent

Men do not like to think that every woman is seeking a lifetime commitment. Men are turned on by women who can have casual relationships, without attachment. An independent woman is self-sufficient and free to have fun!


10. She looks like a centerfold

We can all fantasize, can't we? Men know that the majority of women do not look like Pamela Anderson, but that doesn't keep them from wishing they could hook up with one who does.

The Top 5 Erogenous Zones of a Female


If you're floundering in the bedroom and your girlfriend is moaning for all the wrong reasons, these tips will point you in the right direction.
Gentlemen! If you want to get your girl moaning for real instead of faking it, you're going to have to put a bit of work in. Firstly, a male can achieve orgasm within 2 - 3 minutes when stimulated by another partner. Where as a female can take up to 15 minutes to climax.
If you know for a fact that you can't keep going for that long by pure intercourse alone (and lets face it, if you're doing that, you're having sex, not making love) then you are going to have to stimulate her body with foreplay instead.
Now before you panic and freak out, all of this can be done with your tongue and hands. I guarantee you will become a better lover in the bedroom AND you really will give her orgasm after orgasm.



The top 5 female erogenous zones


The neck
Apart from being sexy and attractive, the female neck is perhaps one of the most sensitive areas of her body. Softly kissing this area from her shoulder to below her ear (while at the same time massaging it with your tongue will send tingles and pulses up and down her spine. Keep at it and she will be breathing heavily in a very short period of time.

The ear lobes
Sucking ear lobes isn't for everyone. Some girls get the tickles when you do it but others simply adore it. While you're there you can whisper sweet nothings in her ear. Close facial contact is what she likes so this is a good way to do it if you're fed up with kissing on the lips. Also massaging her ear lobes with your fingers from time to time can be very soothing.

The nipples
On a par with the neck for sensitivity, the female nipples become hard and sit up right when stimulated with your tongue. Don't forget to give both breasts even attention and also kiss down in between her breasts as you work your way between both of them. If she hasn't grabbed your head by this stage and held it into her bosom, something's badly wrong.

The belly button
Working your way down her body, the belly button is another area you should stimulate before full intercourse. Kissing this area with your lips and tongue will cause vibrations that will vibrate through her reproductive area and begin to stimulate her G spot.

The G Spot
Ah the G spot. This holy grail legend of the female anatomy can be tricky to find. So if the chance arises, ask her if she has already found her G spot and let her point you in the right direction.

As a general guide, most female G spots can be found on the roof of the vagina (that's the side closest to her stomach.). It's about the size and shape of a 2 pence coin and can be found about 4 inches in.

Extreme caution should be taken when stimulating this area with your tongue or fingers as a female can quite literally lose control of her limbs. Don't be surprised if you get kneed in the face or get elbowed as she moans in ecstasy. It should also be noted that not all females have a G spot, so don't be alarmed if you both can't find it. As you have seen there are plenty of other areas of the female body that can be stimulated in the art of love making in order to help her climax.

Doing a combination of all these things will leave her begging for more and you will be a better lover for it. Experimentation is the key to find out what works and what doesn't as everyone is not the same.

As you can see, a true female orgasm involves the stimulation of her whole body and not just simple penetration. Taking the time to show care and attention to her needs will put you so far above any other lovers, she may have had that you may find it tricky escaping from the bed. I know I have ;-)



How to Use Foreplay


Foreplay is meant to entice and tease, stimulating your partner until they are begging for more. As with many aspects of the sexual experience, there are physical and mental facets. Many couples intellectually "click" immediately and are ready to explore sexual experience together. It is important to engage the physical senses during foreplay. Here are some examples of how you can explore and expand your foreplay, and enhance the sexual experience.There are many ways that a man can give and gain pleasure by learning how to touch a woman the way she wants to be touched. Talk to her, ask her what she likes and she will tell you! She has smooth curves and soft skin. When you touch her in the right way, you will see her body react to the pleasure you are giving her. Watch closely and soon you will discover how to please and excite her.
  1. Step 1
    Kissing is an often over looked part of foreplay. When you kiss a woman's lips, it gives her an electric rush that can make her more passionate and physical. Move away from the lips and kiss the eyelids, cheeks, earlobes, neck and then move back to the lips. She will let you know when to kiss the other parts!


  2. Step 2
    Most women love to have their hair stroked and played with. Run your fingers through it. If she is playing with it, that is your cue to do the same.


  3. Step 3
    Give attention to fingers and toes. These are finally getting some of the attention they deserve. They are sensitive and sensual, as are the palms of the hands and soles of the feet.


  4. Step 4
    Explore her lower back. The small of a woman's back is often an area that is in dire need of massage. Rubbing this area gently will release stress, and adding a few kisses will entice her even more.


  5. Step 5
    Learn her other soft places. Behind her knees, under her arms, inner thigh and the hollows of her neck and shoulders. Gentle stroking and kissing of these areas can be extremely pleasurable.


  6. Step 6
    Explore her breasts. This would seem an obvious choice to explore during foreplay, as they are visually stimulating to men. However, men can spend too much time in this area. Over stimulation can make the breasts numb, or irritated. Play with the breasts and nipples, but then move on, with the hint that you will return. She will be waiting.


  7. Step 7
    Play with her buttocks. Many men think of a back massage, but she will also enjoy her buttocks being rubbed, squeezed and played with. It relieves stress and she will anticipate your next move even more.


  8. Step 8
    Known for its intense pleasure, the G spot provides one of the varieties of orgasms that women are able to achieve. Located between the cervix and pubic bone, manually stimulate this area by inserting a finger (or two) palm up, using a "come hither" motion with the index finger. Some women enjoy a "blended orgasm" which can be reached by stimulating the clitoris (with the thumb) and G spot simultaneously.

11/20/09

Here Are Some Of The Romantic Kisses From The Big Screen

There's no more romantic kiss than that which you see on the big screen. Here are our pick for the most romantic movie kisses ever.

Movie: The Way We Were
Starring: Barbara Streisand and Robert Redford
The Kiss: When Katie and Hubbell kiss in front of her fireplace.

Movie: Gone with the Wind
Starring: Clark Gable and Vivien Leigh
The Kiss: When Rhett steals a kiss from Scarlett while he's helping her escape as Atlanta burns.

Movie: The Cutting Edge
Starring: Moira Kelly and D.B. Sweeney
The Kiss: When Doug and Kate kiss on the ice after they finish skating their long program.

Movie: Just Like Heaven
Starring: Reese Witherspoon and Mark Ruffalo
The Kiss: When Elizabeth and David kiss on the rooftop in the garden

Movie: Pretty Woman
Starring: Julia Roberts and Richard Gere
The Kiss: When Edward pulls up in a limo outside of Vivian's apartment with music blaring and flowers in hand. He climbs the rickety fire escape to get a kiss from Vivian.

Movie: How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days
Starring: Kate Hudson and Matthew McConaughey
The Kiss: When Benjamin and Andie kiss in the bathroom on Staten Island.

Movie: Titanic
Starring: Kate Winslet and Leonardo DiCaprio
The Kiss: At the end when they are floating on the raft, Rose gives Jack one last kiss before she falls asleep.

Movie: Lady and the Tramp
Starring: Lady and Tramp
The Kiss: When Lady and Tramp are having a spaghetti dinner, they each chew an end of a long noodle and you realize that they're eating on the same strand. They meet in the middle and share a kiss.

Movie: My Fair Lady
Starring:
The Kiss: At the end, Eliza goes back to Professor Higgins' house and he's pacing back and forth because she's just left. He realizes that she's come back and kisses her.

Movie: Adventures in Babysitting
Starring: Elisabeth Shue and George Newbern
The Kiss: When Chris finally gets back to the suburbs and drops off the children she was supposed to watch, Dan, a guy she met during the course of the night, pulls up outside of the house. When she asks him what he's doing there, he pulls out the roller skates that one of the kids, Sara, had left behind. Sara is watching from the upstairs window and she leans out and shouts "Kiss her". Chris and Dan laugh, then he kisses her.

Movie: Jerry McGuire
Starring: Renee Zellweger and tom Cruise
The Kiss: When Jerry barges into one of Laurel's male bashing sessions, he asks where Dorothy is. Dorothy stands up and he tells her that she completes him and they kiss.

Movie: Castaway
Starring: Tom Hanks and Helen Hunt
The Kiss: Kelly runs through the rain calling after Chuck as he drives away. As Chuck stops and gets out, Kelly jumps in his arms and they embrace in a passionate kiss as raindrops fall on them.
Kelly: "I always knew you were alive. Everyone said that I had to stop saying that; that I had to move on. You were the the love of my life."
Chuck: "I love you too Kelly. More than you'll ever know."
Movie: Notting Hill
Starring: Julia Roberts and Hugh Grant
The Kiss: At the press conference, William asks Anna if she loves him and then they walk towards each other and kiss.

Movie: Dirty Dancing
Starring: Jennifer Grey and Patrick Swayze
The Kiss: "Nobody puts Baby in the corner!". When Baby and Johnny finish their closing dance to "I've Had the Time of My Life", they embrace in a passionate kiss.

Movie: The Notebook
Starring: Tim Ivey and Gena Rowlands
The Kiss: Noah and Allie are standing in a downpour. Noah confesses "It still isn't over." and they passionately kiss.

Allie: "Why didn't you write me? Why? It wasn't over for me, I waited for you for seven years. But now it's too late."
Noah: "I wrote you 365 letters. I wrote you everyday for a year."
Allie: "You wrote me?"
Noah: "Yes. It wasn't over, it still isn't over." And Noah kisses Allie.

Movie: Bend It Like Beckham
Starring: Parminder Nagra and Jonathan Rhys Meyers
The Kiss: At the end, when the go to the airport, Jess has to say goodbye to Joe and they share an amazing kiss.

Movie: Cruel Intentions
Starring: Reese Witherspoon and Ryan Phillipe
The Kiss: During one of their first meetings, Annette and Sebastian are sitting in the grass and share a cautious, but passionate kiss.

Movie: When Harry Met Sally
Starring: Meg Ryan and Billy Crystal
The Kiss: At the end, Harry goes to Sally's party and tells her how he loves her when she gets a crinkle above her nose when she's looking at him likes he's crazy and how he loves it when she's cold when it's 70 degrees outside. Then he tells her he loves her and kisses her.

Movie: The Lakehouse
Starring: Sandra Bullock and Keanu Reeves
The Kiss: When Kate is waiting at the mailbox at the Lakehouse for Alex's response, she falls to her knees crying, not yet knowing his fate. In her letter she asks him to wait the 2 years for her. She hears and car and Alex pulls up, walks over to her, and embraces her in a passionate kiss.

Movie: A Walk To Remember
Starring: Shane West and Mandy Moore
The Kiss: Where they are standing together, looking at the stars and one of the stars has her name

11/19/09

History of Kissing


Humans have a long history of kissing. Europeans kiss both cheeks. Parents kiss their child's cheek. The Intuit rub noses. The french kiss by... ;). Kissing, both casual and romantic, is a common practice, but but we really don't know where or how it began.

There are several different theories as to how kissing all began:

  • In ancient times, a mother would chew up food and pass it directly to the mouth of her baby. What started as a sign of affection between mother and child most likely spread to romantic relationships. However, some cultures had the same practice of passing food to their children, but knew nothing about kissing.
  • Some believed that our souls lived in our breath and that kissing brings your soul together, thus combining you together for eternity. This is a romantic theory, but not really one that can be proven true.
  • Kissing gets you close enough to your partner to smell their scent, giving you knowledge of the person. Animals practice a similar behavior by rubbing against each other.
The theories are just that though. There is no proof or record of where and how kissing originally began. We do know that Europeans were kissing during the Greek and Roman times. It also appears that some form of kissing may have started in India as there are texts from around 1500 B.C. that describe the custom of rubbing noses together, now commonly referred to as 'Eskimo Kissing'.

While we don't know for sure when or where kissing first began, the reference to 'Eskimo Kissing' supports the theory that kissing gets you close to your partner in order to pick up on their scent. When you inhale your partner's scent, you subconsciously learn a lot about the other person by their smell. As we previously noted, most animals engage in a similar behavior.

It seems then that the modern romantic kiss most likely evolved as a way of unconsciously testing the 
genetic fitness of a potential mate. While this may be the underlying reason as to why we began kissing, it's not really the main reason as to why we continue to practice it. The reason is simple: it feels good, it evokes feelings of passion, and it's a physical connection between ourselves and our partners.

However the kiss began, we're thankful. :) 

11/11/09

First kiss may lead to sex, relationship

The first kiss: For men, it's about sex, but for women, it's an indicator of whether there's a relationship to come, according to a study recently published in the Journal of Evolutionary Psychology.
The study assessed kissing behavior by measuring attitudes, preferences of kissing styles and sexual behaviors, as well as the attractiveness and physical traits of kissing partners.
After surveying 1,000 undergraduate students at the University of Albany, researchers concluded kissing means more to women than it does to men. Men were likely to say that the kiss was a means to a hook-up, while women used the kiss to determine a possible relationship.
Researchers also found that 60 percent of both men and women who had found themselves initially attracted to someone lost interest after the first kiss.
"I believe that a relationship is like work, but it's a job that you love to do so it doesn't seem that way," said Megan Davidson (senior-science).
Falling in love is different for every person, said Mary Anne Knapp, social worker at Penn State's Center for Counseling and Psychological Services (CAPS).
"People begin to fall in love based on a combination of factors that range from physical and emotional attraction, shared interests, the enjoyment of companionship, and feeling their partner is concerned about them," she said.
Niveditha Menon, who teaches Sociology 110 (Sociology of Gender), said the debate over which gender falls in love more quickly is hard to conclude.
"One of the problems of understanding the biology of a social being is that biology and social relationships are interactive," Menon said.
Trying to define if one gender is more or less emotional than the other is missing the point, she said,
"We miss out on the tremendous variation of human relationships and possibilities," she said.
While Menon said she doesn't think a kiss can predict if there is possibility of a relationship, it could be a start.
"A kiss gives us indications of sexual compatibility," she said. "I believe a kiss is probably an extremely useful indicator."
The study also claimed kissing a good kisser is not a valid reason to start a long-term relationship.
"Having sex with another person or 'hooking up' is still a true relationship, albeit a very short one. Relationships that transcend these sexual aspects, and dwell more on emotions and commitment are also true relationships," Menon said.
Still, she said, there is no true science to dating, she added.
"We might be biological creatures," she said, "but the ways in which we interact with each other are fairly social."

The Top Places to Kiss Your Partner?

A romantic place to kiss plays significant role in spicing up your kiss with your partner. It can arouse you and your partner to kiss at right place. If you are planning for a long kiss, you must choose a place, where you won’t be disturbed while making it out. Here are few ideas about best places to kiss.

In a Car

You can go for a long drive and choose a deserted roadside to kiss your partner. Lock up the car and get prepared for a hot kiss. The less space inside car will help you to get closer to each other and use your hands at right places while kissing. Believe me! The discomfort inside the car can make you wilder for a kiss and you will agree that it is a romantic place to kiss.

On the Terrace

You can choose the terrace of a building to kiss at right place. It is a wild feeling to be on top of the world and feeling the spicy lips of your partner under the sky. Also, you can consider this place for a long kiss, as there are less chances of anyone disturbing you.

In the Bathtub

How can we forget the magic of bathtub as one of the best places to kiss? Being with your partner in a bathtub is a different feeling all together and can result in a wonderful kissing session.

It is a good idea to choose wild places like hotel lobbies and balconies for kissing, as you will definitely enjoy the fear of getting caught. Remember to choose a place, which can make your kiss fiery enough to be remembered for lifetime.

11/10/09

Rules to Follow While Kissing Someone

A wonderful kiss marks the onset of a beautiful relation, bringing two individuals closer to one another. Like any other art, kissing also requires one to follow a set of general rules.
Let’s make an attempt to generate a memorable kiss by learning some kissing rules.
  • Eyes – Meant to Be Closed
Take lesson from all those hot Hollywood kisses, where eyes are taught to be kept closed while kissing. It will help the lovers to actually feel the warmth of locking lips with each other.
  • A Hygienic Kiss
The tongue kissing rules are different from those followed in a simple lip-to-lip kiss. For this, one needs to follow a good hygiene level. Controlling mouth odor as well as amount of saliva is mandatory in a passionate kiss.
  • Prepare the Mouth
Make sure that your partner doesn’t taste, while kissing, the food eaten by you just few minutes back. So, use a mouth freshener and other products after having food, if you have pre-planned to kiss your lover.
  • No Permission Required
Don’t ever ask the person on date with you for a kiss. Once you are assured that the opposite person is ready for the kiss, go for it confidently and your partner will love to surrender to exchange love.
  • What about Bad Kiss
It is not a kissing etiquette to rudely interrupt a kiss, if the opposite person is not performing well. Assume that it is his or her first time and you need to play the role of a teacher.

By following these general rules for kissing, you can keep on getting better with every kiss of your life.

A Myth:"Can Deep Kissing Result In Pregnancy?"

It is rather sad that in today’s information and modern age some extremely stupid misconceptions still thrive uninterrupted. One such myth is that a girl has chances of getting pregnant if she indulges in deep kissing.

What Is Deep Kissing?

Kissing has been roughly categorized into open-mouthed kissing and close-mouthed kissing. Deep kissing belongs to the open-mouthed or French kissing category. It involves a lot of passionate play between the tongues of the two individuals to the extent that the tongues are put in as hard as and as much into the mouth as possible. It is extremely erotic.

How Pregnancy Occurs?

A girl can get pregnant is she indulges into sexual intercourse with a guy which involves penetration of the girl’s vagina by the guy’s penis. The chances are very high if the girl is nearer to her periods when ovulation occurs and the guy ejaculates sperms into the girl’s vagina during the intercourse.

Busting The Myth

As deep kissing involves no sexual intercourse, there is absolutely no chance of pregnancy as a result of it. Hence, there is no point defying the pleasure of kissing by worrying about all these myths. But, there is one thing that must be protected against. As kissing is just a precursor to other sexual ambitions, it might happen that you might want to do more and more sexual activity as a result of a passionate deep kiss. In such instances, you must control your desires or use proper birth control mechanisms for preventing pregnancy by properly dealing with the next step after kissing. This includes usage of condoms and contraceptive pills.

How to Convince Your Boyfriend for First Kiss:for girls

Are you burning with the desire of getting kissed by your boyfriend? Well! You can get him to kiss, without actually saying a word. First of all, you must believe the fact that every boy has the want to kiss his girlfriend and he only waits for a signal from other side. So, you just need to learn the art of giving the signal that you are ready to be kissed.

Approach Him with Fresh Breath

Get close to him and influence his thought process with your breath. You can also use a nice perfume to make your boyfriend kiss you. You must blow your breath on his body areas like ear and neck, which will definitely trigger his hormones to start the kiss.

Shape Up Your Lips

Work out on your lips as much as you can before going on the date with him. Use a lip gloss and lipstick to shape up your lips and make them look sexy. You can get him to kiss by biting your lips just once or twice or letting your tongue go on the lips.

Physical Contact Arouses Him

Boys love to be physically pampered by their women. To make your boyfriend kiss you, hold his hands and brush them up with your soft touch. You can also brush his elbows and arms to make him ready for ultimate pleasure of a passionate kiss.

You can also induce a flaming look in your eyes to ask what he is waiting for. It is the fulfillment of your feminine desires by getting kissed by your boyfriend and you should not miss it at any cost.