How to Read Women's Body Language for Flirting

Flirting is when two people subtly show their romantic or sexual interest in each other. Flirting may take place in many social scenes, such as clubs, bars, restaurants and meetings. For men, a large part of flirting is being able to read a woman's body language to see if she is interested or not. Learn how to read women's body language for flirting while on a date or other social scene.

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   Pay attention to a woman's physical contact while flirting. This is one of the most important aspects of a woman's flirting body language. If a girl touches you, whether playfully or for a practical purpose (such as brushing something off of your shirt), she may be expressing an interest in you.
   
   
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   Watch how women face you when they're talking or flirting. A woman that is interested will face you when in a conversation. If a woman leans forward slightly, she is more interested than if she leans back.
   
   
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   Observe how a woman uses her arms. Crossed arms are generally a negative body language sign while flirting with women.
   
   
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   Notice how women make eye contact while flirting. A sidelong glance or constant, steady eye contact while you're talking to her may mean she is interested in you. Eye contact expresses interest, alertness and attentiveness to what you're saying. If you're flirting with a girl and she looks down or away, it may mean she would rather not talk to you.
   
   
5. Step 5
    
   Be confident when flirting with women and reading their body language. Women's body language is not the sole, determining factor when flirting with a girl. Sometimes, women express body language that does not lie in sync with what they're really feeling. Be friendly and a true gentlemen while flirting with women to be the most successful at finding a date.
   
   
   Tips & Warnings

   • Don't give too much weight to women's body language while flirting, as some women are not as expressive as others.

Top 10 Female Turn Ons..

When it comes to sexual turn ons, men and women are very different. It is not a myth that women are attracted to a man who is comfortable with his emotions. It is also true that many women are on the hunt for an attractive man who knows how to treat a lady right! The following is a list of the top ten female turn ons gathered from hours spent listening to women tell it like it is.

1. A man who can make you feel like a woman
For many women, respect is the number one thing that they look for in a man. Not only is it a prerequisite, it is also a big turn on! A man who respects a woman and appreciates her for who she is has the power to make her weak in the knees.

2. A man who is not afraid to take charge
Women like strength and not just physical strength. Women like to think that their man can take charge of any situation. Giving a woman a feeling of protection is endearing as well as arousing.

3. A man who can be dominated
All relationships involve a power dynamic. A man can be strong with his woman, but must also be able to surrender some of that power. A woman likes to take control sometimes and feels sexy when a man is ready and willing to respond to all her demands.

4. A man with a sensitive side
Contrary to popular belief, women are not looking for a man who wants to talk about his emotions constantly. Sensitivity is a good thing but more important is to be emotionally well-balanced. One of the biggest female turn ons is having a man who is not afraid to show his emotions.

5. A man who can hold his own
A man who is unable to take care of himself turns women off! Being self-sufficient reassures a woman that she will not have to handle everything in a relationship. Men who are overly dependent are perceived as weak and that is not an attractive quality!

6. A man who is successful
Success does not necessarily mean wealth. Women feel comfortable with the fact that a man can support himself and his family. Most women are looking for a man who is ambitious and passionate about life. A successful person appears more confident and confidence is always a turn on.

7. A man in uniform
Sorry men, but this is not a myth. Women love a man in uniform! Although firefighters and policemen top the list, most likely any uniform will do!

8. A man with a great body
Women are not nearly as fixated on this one as men are, but women are also turned on by a man with a fantastic body. Women have differing ideas about what is physically attractive in a man, but wide shoulders and a cute backside doesn't hurt!

9. A man with a brain and a sense of humor
Although it may be fun to have a fling with the male version of Barbie, women are more turned on by men who are smart and funny. A dim-witted dullard gets boring fast. Women want their fires lit by someone who can tell a good joke and can challenge them intellectually.

10. A man who is good with kids
Many men dread this one, so thank goodness it is number 10 on the list. Women are not necessarily picturing you as the father of their children, but it is endearing to see the nurturing side of a man. Men might not want to hear it and women might not like to admit it, but a man holding a baby is beautiful and a turn on!

G Spot Positions: Favorite 3 Positions to Hit Your G Spot During Sex

So, the first step in hitting your g spot during sex is to know where it is! For a refresher course, check out this page on the g spot location. You also may want to try a finding the g spot exercise first.
From here on, we're going to assume that you (and your partner) know where your g-spot is, and how to best stimulate it to give you pleasure.
Now that that's all taken care of - lets focus on g spot positions. The first step is to recognize that the g spot, or g spot area, is small and not always in the same place. So, throughout your sex you'll both need to be communicating. What works, what feels good, what doesn't, a little to the right, a little to the left, etc.
In the beginning, as you explore different g spot positions, its likely best if you agree not to have orgasms. We've found this makes it easy to have a sense of exploration and play.
And, without further delay, here are our three favorite g spot positions. Enjoy!



Ride Em Cowboy (Woman on Top)

 

I have to say there's something so sexy about a woman being on top, in charge of finding what feels the best. Really, this position is ideal because it allows the woman to control the depth, intensity, and speed. It gives you the ability to play, and explore, and notice how much more pleasure comes from subtle differences.
As you are on top, experiment with what feel's best to you. Move, shift, tell your partner what feel's good, rock back and forth, take it deep, keep it shallow, etc. This will likely work best if you are already aroused and hot. (This is true with all these g spot positions)
Now, as the guy in this position, you're not just laying back passively (thought that is fine to do - just not now!). What will help your partner most is if you tilt your pelvis as much as possible. The more you can do this, the better.
You'll also get a great workout! : )
Unfortunately, if you are anything like me, you'll get super tired super quick. In the beginning we used to use alot of pillows to try to angle my hips. Lately, we've really been enjoying something called the wedge, its a liberator shape. This small shape puts your pelvis in the perfect tilted position without you having to do any work.
I know it sounds crazy, but the small, subtle positioning this enables, makes all the difference.

Doggy Style (Crouching, Man Coming from Behind)

 

This is one of our favorite g spot positions. Not only do you have great g-spot access, but there?s just something so primal andsexy about & ! from behind.
Now, guys, in this position you can take it easy and let her do all the work. In this case, ladies, use your thighs to press back and find the depth, thrust style, and position that works best for you.
However, guys, if you want to be more active, you can easily adapt this position. Push your woman down, and lay more on top of her (still coming in from behind)
Now, for the best g spot stimulation, position your legs outside of hers and put more of your weight forward, so you are riding her from up higher.
This puts your penis on more of a downward angle, and helps you hit her g-spot more directly. You can also experiment with having her legs more open, or more closed to see what feels best.
We've also been using the liberator shape - the wedge - in this position too. We found if we put that underneath my girlfriend, it gives her hips a particular tilt that totally amp things up.

Your Highness (Man Kneeling or Standing, Woman's Legs on His Shoulders)

 

We love this sex position. With many g spot positions you can't look each other in the eyes. With this one, we recommend it. Also, when you want to hit the g spot, having your legs high and wide is the secret ingredient. Sometimes putting your feet on your partner's shoulders can be the most comfortable (its also just super sexy!)
Now, you can do this position in lots of ways. You can do it off your sofa, a chair, or your coffee table (we won't tell!). Or, you can modify it to work off your bed by kneeling vs standing. The only real key to this position is that your partner is angled upward, with her legs spread wide or on your shoulders. You can achieve this combination in lots of different ways (be creative!)

 

 

G-spot 101

Although the G-spot is surrounded by controversy and conflicting theories, there is far to much evidence to deny its existence. Many women swear that it gives them an orgasm unlike any other. Some even ejaculate fluid and go into uncontrollable spasms from a G-spot orgasm.

Ok, so it exists...What is it? Why all the hype? Do all women have one? And most importantly, how do you find it? Below you’ll find the answer to all of these questions and more.

A quick G-spot history lesson

The G-spot was brought to public attention during the early 1980’s by the book “The G Spot and Other Recent Discoveries About Human Sexuality”. It was written doctors John Perry, Beverly Whipple, and Alice Kahn Ladas and based on the discoveries made during their research on pelvic muscle disorders.

They named the G-spot after German doctor Ernst Gräfenberg who first hypothesized its existence in the 1950’s. He wrote about “...an erotic zone on the anterior wall of the vagina” that “swells out greatly at the end of orgasm”.

The book was an object of much criticism from scientists and gynecologists of the day. However, despite the lack of scientific evidence, the G-spot has been widely accepted by sexologists and the public.

What is the G-spot and where is it located?

The G-spot is a small area about two inches inside and on the front wall of the vagina. It’s about the size of a quarter and may feel a bit rougher than the surrounding tissue. It’s made from erectile tissue and will swell up and enlarge with stimulation.

As we mentioned earlier, there is some debate about what the G-spot actually is. Some researchers say that the G-spot is the urethral sponge, also referred to as the female prostate. The urethral sponge is a cushion of tissue that sits against the vaginal wall and surrounds the urethra. The fact that the Skene’s glands (responsible for female ejaculation) are contained in the urethral sponge supports this theory.

Another line of thinking is that the G-spot is simply the back end of the clitoris. This theory is supported by the fact that the clitoral nerves extend along the vaginal walls and into the body.

The truth may be somewhere in the middle as the urethral sponge and the clitoral nerve are closely interconnected. Unless you’re a scientist, this shouldn’t even matter much anyway. In the end, all that matters is knowing how to find and stimulate the G-spot. Fortunately we’re going to help with that too.

G-spot orgasm

Women describe G-spot orgasms as deep, whole body experiences. These orgasms last much longer than clitoral orgasms, and the vagina muscles spasm and contract much more violently. Many say that G-spot orgasms are the most powerful type of orgasm and hit like rolling waves of pleasure. They are sometimes followed by a euphoric sensation that may last up to a half an hour.

G-spot orgasms may cause her to eject a varying amount of clear, silky fluid through her urethra. This is most commonly referred to as female ejaculation.