11/28/09

Top 10 Male Turn Ons


It is an undeniable fact that a man is powerless to the charms of a beautiful woman. All men, however, have a different definition of beauty. Regardless of how a man defines what he finds attractive in a woman, there are several common male turn ons that all men would agree to. The following is a list of the top ten male turn ons:


1. Women who leave something to the imagination

As unbelievable as it sounds, men often prefer to be teased with a little taste of what is to come. This would include a woman who dresses to show a little skin, but not too much. For example, a female who offers the slight glimpse of a thong or a bra strap is often more seductive than one who is scantily clad. Women who maintain a certain degree of class are always more attractive to men than women who openly share all their secrets!


2. She is not afraid to admit that she loves sex

There is nothing wrong with enjoying the act of sex, and there are fewer things more attractive to a man than a woman who can admit this! Many men have a major obsession with sex, so a sexually confident woman with a healthy sex drive is a big turn on for them.


3. She has a strong sense of self-esteem

It is said that the dream of all men is to have a woman at his beck and call; au contraire, most men are looking for a woman who can think for herself. Men are hugely turned on by a woman who believes in herself and has the confidence to speak her mind. Men tire easily of women who constantly need to be reassured. A woman with self-esteem is more challenging and keeps men on their toes!


4. She knows how to talk dirty

It may sound clich , but men love it when a woman talks dirty! For men, hearing a woman describe what she wants sexually is a turn on. Women who effortlessly talk dirty are exciting and hold the promise of amazing sex.


5. She loves her body

Men love to look at women's bodies. It is no secret that men love a great pair of breasts or a lovely backside. Moreover, men love a woman who appreciates what she's got and is not shy to show it. It is difficult to be turned on by a woman who is ashamed of her body, but a woman who embraces her attributes will always win the attention of eager men!


6. She has an accent

You have probably heard this one before and you may find it hard to believe, but true enough, an accent is a male turn on. Regardless of whether she is from Scotland or Spain, her accent will be perceived as exotic to a man. It is especially sexy when she is describing what she loves to do in bed!


7. She has a wicked sense of humor

A woman who can be funny is very attractive and approachable. Men are turned on by a witty woman; one who can dish it out as well as she can take it! A sense of humor adds playfulness to the relationship and always keeps them coming back for more!


8. She is adventurous

Women who are willing to try new things and live on the wild side will always win the attention of a man. Showing a free-spirited nature is sexy and a challenge for any man!


9. She is independent

Men do not like to think that every woman is seeking a lifetime commitment. Men are turned on by women who can have casual relationships, without attachment. An independent woman is self-sufficient and free to have fun!


10. She looks like a centerfold

We can all fantasize, can't we? Men know that the majority of women do not look like Pamela Anderson, but that doesn't keep them from wishing they could hook up with one who does.

The Top 5 Erogenous Zones of a Female


If you're floundering in the bedroom and your girlfriend is moaning for all the wrong reasons, these tips will point you in the right direction.
Gentlemen! If you want to get your girl moaning for real instead of faking it, you're going to have to put a bit of work in. Firstly, a male can achieve orgasm within 2 - 3 minutes when stimulated by another partner. Where as a female can take up to 15 minutes to climax.
If you know for a fact that you can't keep going for that long by pure intercourse alone (and lets face it, if you're doing that, you're having sex, not making love) then you are going to have to stimulate her body with foreplay instead.
Now before you panic and freak out, all of this can be done with your tongue and hands. I guarantee you will become a better lover in the bedroom AND you really will give her orgasm after orgasm.



The top 5 female erogenous zones


The neck
Apart from being sexy and attractive, the female neck is perhaps one of the most sensitive areas of her body. Softly kissing this area from her shoulder to below her ear (while at the same time massaging it with your tongue will send tingles and pulses up and down her spine. Keep at it and she will be breathing heavily in a very short period of time.

The ear lobes
Sucking ear lobes isn't for everyone. Some girls get the tickles when you do it but others simply adore it. While you're there you can whisper sweet nothings in her ear. Close facial contact is what she likes so this is a good way to do it if you're fed up with kissing on the lips. Also massaging her ear lobes with your fingers from time to time can be very soothing.

The nipples
On a par with the neck for sensitivity, the female nipples become hard and sit up right when stimulated with your tongue. Don't forget to give both breasts even attention and also kiss down in between her breasts as you work your way between both of them. If she hasn't grabbed your head by this stage and held it into her bosom, something's badly wrong.

The belly button
Working your way down her body, the belly button is another area you should stimulate before full intercourse. Kissing this area with your lips and tongue will cause vibrations that will vibrate through her reproductive area and begin to stimulate her G spot.

The G Spot
Ah the G spot. This holy grail legend of the female anatomy can be tricky to find. So if the chance arises, ask her if she has already found her G spot and let her point you in the right direction.

As a general guide, most female G spots can be found on the roof of the vagina (that's the side closest to her stomach.). It's about the size and shape of a 2 pence coin and can be found about 4 inches in.

Extreme caution should be taken when stimulating this area with your tongue or fingers as a female can quite literally lose control of her limbs. Don't be surprised if you get kneed in the face or get elbowed as she moans in ecstasy. It should also be noted that not all females have a G spot, so don't be alarmed if you both can't find it. As you have seen there are plenty of other areas of the female body that can be stimulated in the art of love making in order to help her climax.

Doing a combination of all these things will leave her begging for more and you will be a better lover for it. Experimentation is the key to find out what works and what doesn't as everyone is not the same.

As you can see, a true female orgasm involves the stimulation of her whole body and not just simple penetration. Taking the time to show care and attention to her needs will put you so far above any other lovers, she may have had that you may find it tricky escaping from the bed. I know I have ;-)



How to Use Foreplay


Foreplay is meant to entice and tease, stimulating your partner until they are begging for more. As with many aspects of the sexual experience, there are physical and mental facets. Many couples intellectually "click" immediately and are ready to explore sexual experience together. It is important to engage the physical senses during foreplay. Here are some examples of how you can explore and expand your foreplay, and enhance the sexual experience.There are many ways that a man can give and gain pleasure by learning how to touch a woman the way she wants to be touched. Talk to her, ask her what she likes and she will tell you! She has smooth curves and soft skin. When you touch her in the right way, you will see her body react to the pleasure you are giving her. Watch closely and soon you will discover how to please and excite her.
  1. Step 1
    Kissing is an often over looked part of foreplay. When you kiss a woman's lips, it gives her an electric rush that can make her more passionate and physical. Move away from the lips and kiss the eyelids, cheeks, earlobes, neck and then move back to the lips. She will let you know when to kiss the other parts!


  2. Step 2
    Most women love to have their hair stroked and played with. Run your fingers through it. If she is playing with it, that is your cue to do the same.


  3. Step 3
    Give attention to fingers and toes. These are finally getting some of the attention they deserve. They are sensitive and sensual, as are the palms of the hands and soles of the feet.


  4. Step 4
    Explore her lower back. The small of a woman's back is often an area that is in dire need of massage. Rubbing this area gently will release stress, and adding a few kisses will entice her even more.


  5. Step 5
    Learn her other soft places. Behind her knees, under her arms, inner thigh and the hollows of her neck and shoulders. Gentle stroking and kissing of these areas can be extremely pleasurable.


  6. Step 6
    Explore her breasts. This would seem an obvious choice to explore during foreplay, as they are visually stimulating to men. However, men can spend too much time in this area. Over stimulation can make the breasts numb, or irritated. Play with the breasts and nipples, but then move on, with the hint that you will return. She will be waiting.


  7. Step 7
    Play with her buttocks. Many men think of a back massage, but she will also enjoy her buttocks being rubbed, squeezed and played with. It relieves stress and she will anticipate your next move even more.


  8. Step 8
    Known for its intense pleasure, the G spot provides one of the varieties of orgasms that women are able to achieve. Located between the cervix and pubic bone, manually stimulate this area by inserting a finger (or two) palm up, using a "come hither" motion with the index finger. Some women enjoy a "blended orgasm" which can be reached by stimulating the clitoris (with the thumb) and G spot simultaneously.

11/20/09

Here Are Some Of The Romantic Kisses From The Big Screen

There's no more romantic kiss than that which you see on the big screen. Here are our pick for the most romantic movie kisses ever.

Movie: The Way We Were
Starring: Barbara Streisand and Robert Redford
The Kiss: When Katie and Hubbell kiss in front of her fireplace.

Movie: Gone with the Wind
Starring: Clark Gable and Vivien Leigh
The Kiss: When Rhett steals a kiss from Scarlett while he's helping her escape as Atlanta burns.

Movie: The Cutting Edge
Starring: Moira Kelly and D.B. Sweeney
The Kiss: When Doug and Kate kiss on the ice after they finish skating their long program.

Movie: Just Like Heaven
Starring: Reese Witherspoon and Mark Ruffalo
The Kiss: When Elizabeth and David kiss on the rooftop in the garden

Movie: Pretty Woman
Starring: Julia Roberts and Richard Gere
The Kiss: When Edward pulls up in a limo outside of Vivian's apartment with music blaring and flowers in hand. He climbs the rickety fire escape to get a kiss from Vivian.

Movie: How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days
Starring: Kate Hudson and Matthew McConaughey
The Kiss: When Benjamin and Andie kiss in the bathroom on Staten Island.

Movie: Titanic
Starring: Kate Winslet and Leonardo DiCaprio
The Kiss: At the end when they are floating on the raft, Rose gives Jack one last kiss before she falls asleep.

Movie: Lady and the Tramp
Starring: Lady and Tramp
The Kiss: When Lady and Tramp are having a spaghetti dinner, they each chew an end of a long noodle and you realize that they're eating on the same strand. They meet in the middle and share a kiss.

Movie: My Fair Lady
Starring:
The Kiss: At the end, Eliza goes back to Professor Higgins' house and he's pacing back and forth because she's just left. He realizes that she's come back and kisses her.

Movie: Adventures in Babysitting
Starring: Elisabeth Shue and George Newbern
The Kiss: When Chris finally gets back to the suburbs and drops off the children she was supposed to watch, Dan, a guy she met during the course of the night, pulls up outside of the house. When she asks him what he's doing there, he pulls out the roller skates that one of the kids, Sara, had left behind. Sara is watching from the upstairs window and she leans out and shouts "Kiss her". Chris and Dan laugh, then he kisses her.

Movie: Jerry McGuire
Starring: Renee Zellweger and tom Cruise
The Kiss: When Jerry barges into one of Laurel's male bashing sessions, he asks where Dorothy is. Dorothy stands up and he tells her that she completes him and they kiss.

Movie: Castaway
Starring: Tom Hanks and Helen Hunt
The Kiss: Kelly runs through the rain calling after Chuck as he drives away. As Chuck stops and gets out, Kelly jumps in his arms and they embrace in a passionate kiss as raindrops fall on them.
Kelly: "I always knew you were alive. Everyone said that I had to stop saying that; that I had to move on. You were the the love of my life."
Chuck: "I love you too Kelly. More than you'll ever know."
Movie: Notting Hill
Starring: Julia Roberts and Hugh Grant
The Kiss: At the press conference, William asks Anna if she loves him and then they walk towards each other and kiss.

Movie: Dirty Dancing
Starring: Jennifer Grey and Patrick Swayze
The Kiss: "Nobody puts Baby in the corner!". When Baby and Johnny finish their closing dance to "I've Had the Time of My Life", they embrace in a passionate kiss.

Movie: The Notebook
Starring: Tim Ivey and Gena Rowlands
The Kiss: Noah and Allie are standing in a downpour. Noah confesses "It still isn't over." and they passionately kiss.

Allie: "Why didn't you write me? Why? It wasn't over for me, I waited for you for seven years. But now it's too late."
Noah: "I wrote you 365 letters. I wrote you everyday for a year."
Allie: "You wrote me?"
Noah: "Yes. It wasn't over, it still isn't over." And Noah kisses Allie.

Movie: Bend It Like Beckham
Starring: Parminder Nagra and Jonathan Rhys Meyers
The Kiss: At the end, when the go to the airport, Jess has to say goodbye to Joe and they share an amazing kiss.

Movie: Cruel Intentions
Starring: Reese Witherspoon and Ryan Phillipe
The Kiss: During one of their first meetings, Annette and Sebastian are sitting in the grass and share a cautious, but passionate kiss.

Movie: When Harry Met Sally
Starring: Meg Ryan and Billy Crystal
The Kiss: At the end, Harry goes to Sally's party and tells her how he loves her when she gets a crinkle above her nose when she's looking at him likes he's crazy and how he loves it when she's cold when it's 70 degrees outside. Then he tells her he loves her and kisses her.

Movie: The Lakehouse
Starring: Sandra Bullock and Keanu Reeves
The Kiss: When Kate is waiting at the mailbox at the Lakehouse for Alex's response, she falls to her knees crying, not yet knowing his fate. In her letter she asks him to wait the 2 years for her. She hears and car and Alex pulls up, walks over to her, and embraces her in a passionate kiss.

Movie: A Walk To Remember
Starring: Shane West and Mandy Moore
The Kiss: Where they are standing together, looking at the stars and one of the stars has her name

11/19/09

History of Kissing


Humans have a long history of kissing. Europeans kiss both cheeks. Parents kiss their child's cheek. The Intuit rub noses. The french kiss by... ;). Kissing, both casual and romantic, is a common practice, but but we really don't know where or how it began.

There are several different theories as to how kissing all began:

  • In ancient times, a mother would chew up food and pass it directly to the mouth of her baby. What started as a sign of affection between mother and child most likely spread to romantic relationships. However, some cultures had the same practice of passing food to their children, but knew nothing about kissing.
  • Some believed that our souls lived in our breath and that kissing brings your soul together, thus combining you together for eternity. This is a romantic theory, but not really one that can be proven true.
  • Kissing gets you close enough to your partner to smell their scent, giving you knowledge of the person. Animals practice a similar behavior by rubbing against each other.
The theories are just that though. There is no proof or record of where and how kissing originally began. We do know that Europeans were kissing during the Greek and Roman times. It also appears that some form of kissing may have started in India as there are texts from around 1500 B.C. that describe the custom of rubbing noses together, now commonly referred to as 'Eskimo Kissing'.

While we don't know for sure when or where kissing first began, the reference to 'Eskimo Kissing' supports the theory that kissing gets you close to your partner in order to pick up on their scent. When you inhale your partner's scent, you subconsciously learn a lot about the other person by their smell. As we previously noted, most animals engage in a similar behavior.

It seems then that the modern romantic kiss most likely evolved as a way of unconsciously testing the 
genetic fitness of a potential mate. While this may be the underlying reason as to why we began kissing, it's not really the main reason as to why we continue to practice it. The reason is simple: it feels good, it evokes feelings of passion, and it's a physical connection between ourselves and our partners.

However the kiss began, we're thankful. :) 

11/11/09

First kiss may lead to sex, relationship

The first kiss: For men, it's about sex, but for women, it's an indicator of whether there's a relationship to come, according to a study recently published in the Journal of Evolutionary Psychology.
The study assessed kissing behavior by measuring attitudes, preferences of kissing styles and sexual behaviors, as well as the attractiveness and physical traits of kissing partners.
After surveying 1,000 undergraduate students at the University of Albany, researchers concluded kissing means more to women than it does to men. Men were likely to say that the kiss was a means to a hook-up, while women used the kiss to determine a possible relationship.
Researchers also found that 60 percent of both men and women who had found themselves initially attracted to someone lost interest after the first kiss.
"I believe that a relationship is like work, but it's a job that you love to do so it doesn't seem that way," said Megan Davidson (senior-science).
Falling in love is different for every person, said Mary Anne Knapp, social worker at Penn State's Center for Counseling and Psychological Services (CAPS).
"People begin to fall in love based on a combination of factors that range from physical and emotional attraction, shared interests, the enjoyment of companionship, and feeling their partner is concerned about them," she said.
Niveditha Menon, who teaches Sociology 110 (Sociology of Gender), said the debate over which gender falls in love more quickly is hard to conclude.
"One of the problems of understanding the biology of a social being is that biology and social relationships are interactive," Menon said.
Trying to define if one gender is more or less emotional than the other is missing the point, she said,
"We miss out on the tremendous variation of human relationships and possibilities," she said.
While Menon said she doesn't think a kiss can predict if there is possibility of a relationship, it could be a start.
"A kiss gives us indications of sexual compatibility," she said. "I believe a kiss is probably an extremely useful indicator."
The study also claimed kissing a good kisser is not a valid reason to start a long-term relationship.
"Having sex with another person or 'hooking up' is still a true relationship, albeit a very short one. Relationships that transcend these sexual aspects, and dwell more on emotions and commitment are also true relationships," Menon said.
Still, she said, there is no true science to dating, she added.
"We might be biological creatures," she said, "but the ways in which we interact with each other are fairly social."

The Top Places to Kiss Your Partner?

A romantic place to kiss plays significant role in spicing up your kiss with your partner. It can arouse you and your partner to kiss at right place. If you are planning for a long kiss, you must choose a place, where you won’t be disturbed while making it out. Here are few ideas about best places to kiss.

In a Car

You can go for a long drive and choose a deserted roadside to kiss your partner. Lock up the car and get prepared for a hot kiss. The less space inside car will help you to get closer to each other and use your hands at right places while kissing. Believe me! The discomfort inside the car can make you wilder for a kiss and you will agree that it is a romantic place to kiss.

On the Terrace

You can choose the terrace of a building to kiss at right place. It is a wild feeling to be on top of the world and feeling the spicy lips of your partner under the sky. Also, you can consider this place for a long kiss, as there are less chances of anyone disturbing you.

In the Bathtub

How can we forget the magic of bathtub as one of the best places to kiss? Being with your partner in a bathtub is a different feeling all together and can result in a wonderful kissing session.

It is a good idea to choose wild places like hotel lobbies and balconies for kissing, as you will definitely enjoy the fear of getting caught. Remember to choose a place, which can make your kiss fiery enough to be remembered for lifetime.

11/10/09

Rules to Follow While Kissing Someone

A wonderful kiss marks the onset of a beautiful relation, bringing two individuals closer to one another. Like any other art, kissing also requires one to follow a set of general rules.
Let’s make an attempt to generate a memorable kiss by learning some kissing rules.
  • Eyes – Meant to Be Closed
Take lesson from all those hot Hollywood kisses, where eyes are taught to be kept closed while kissing. It will help the lovers to actually feel the warmth of locking lips with each other.
  • A Hygienic Kiss
The tongue kissing rules are different from those followed in a simple lip-to-lip kiss. For this, one needs to follow a good hygiene level. Controlling mouth odor as well as amount of saliva is mandatory in a passionate kiss.
  • Prepare the Mouth
Make sure that your partner doesn’t taste, while kissing, the food eaten by you just few minutes back. So, use a mouth freshener and other products after having food, if you have pre-planned to kiss your lover.
  • No Permission Required
Don’t ever ask the person on date with you for a kiss. Once you are assured that the opposite person is ready for the kiss, go for it confidently and your partner will love to surrender to exchange love.
  • What about Bad Kiss
It is not a kissing etiquette to rudely interrupt a kiss, if the opposite person is not performing well. Assume that it is his or her first time and you need to play the role of a teacher.

By following these general rules for kissing, you can keep on getting better with every kiss of your life.

A Myth:"Can Deep Kissing Result In Pregnancy?"

It is rather sad that in today’s information and modern age some extremely stupid misconceptions still thrive uninterrupted. One such myth is that a girl has chances of getting pregnant if she indulges in deep kissing.

What Is Deep Kissing?

Kissing has been roughly categorized into open-mouthed kissing and close-mouthed kissing. Deep kissing belongs to the open-mouthed or French kissing category. It involves a lot of passionate play between the tongues of the two individuals to the extent that the tongues are put in as hard as and as much into the mouth as possible. It is extremely erotic.

How Pregnancy Occurs?

A girl can get pregnant is she indulges into sexual intercourse with a guy which involves penetration of the girl’s vagina by the guy’s penis. The chances are very high if the girl is nearer to her periods when ovulation occurs and the guy ejaculates sperms into the girl’s vagina during the intercourse.

Busting The Myth

As deep kissing involves no sexual intercourse, there is absolutely no chance of pregnancy as a result of it. Hence, there is no point defying the pleasure of kissing by worrying about all these myths. But, there is one thing that must be protected against. As kissing is just a precursor to other sexual ambitions, it might happen that you might want to do more and more sexual activity as a result of a passionate deep kiss. In such instances, you must control your desires or use proper birth control mechanisms for preventing pregnancy by properly dealing with the next step after kissing. This includes usage of condoms and contraceptive pills.

How to Convince Your Boyfriend for First Kiss:for girls

Are you burning with the desire of getting kissed by your boyfriend? Well! You can get him to kiss, without actually saying a word. First of all, you must believe the fact that every boy has the want to kiss his girlfriend and he only waits for a signal from other side. So, you just need to learn the art of giving the signal that you are ready to be kissed.

Approach Him with Fresh Breath

Get close to him and influence his thought process with your breath. You can also use a nice perfume to make your boyfriend kiss you. You must blow your breath on his body areas like ear and neck, which will definitely trigger his hormones to start the kiss.

Shape Up Your Lips

Work out on your lips as much as you can before going on the date with him. Use a lip gloss and lipstick to shape up your lips and make them look sexy. You can get him to kiss by biting your lips just once or twice or letting your tongue go on the lips.

Physical Contact Arouses Him

Boys love to be physically pampered by their women. To make your boyfriend kiss you, hold his hands and brush them up with your soft touch. You can also brush his elbows and arms to make him ready for ultimate pleasure of a passionate kiss.

You can also induce a flaming look in your eyes to ask what he is waiting for. It is the fulfillment of your feminine desires by getting kissed by your boyfriend and you should not miss it at any cost.

11/9/09

Some more type of kisses

Cheek Kiss
A friendly, "I really like you" kiss. Often the preferred kissing method of a first date. With your hands on your partner's shoulders, gently brush your lips across her cheek.

Earlobe Kiss
Gently sip and suck the earlobe. Avoid louder sucking noises as ears are sensitized noise detectors.

Eskimo Kiss
With your faces less than a breath apart, gently rub your noses together.

Finger Kiss
While laying together gently suck on their fingers. This can be very seductive and pleasurable.

Foot Kiss
An erotic and romantic gesture. It may tickle, but relax and enjoy it! To give a toe kiss by gently suck the toes and then lightly kissing the foot. It helps to gently massage the base of the foot while performing the kiss.

Freeze Kiss (or Melt Kiss)
Experiment with this fun kiss. Put a small piece of ice in your mouth, then open mouth and kiss your partner, passing them the ice with your tongue. It's an erotic and sensual french kiss with a twist of cold.

French Kiss
The kiss involving the tongue. Some call this the "Soul Kiss" because the life and soul are thought to pass through the mouth's breath in the exchange across tongues. Surprisingly, the French call this "The English Kiss".


Fruity Kiss
Take a small piece of fruit and place between your lips (juicy fruits such as grapes, strawberries, small pieces of pineapple or mango are ideal). Kiss your partner and nibble one half of the piece of fruit while they nibble the other until it breaks in half, allowing the juice to run into your mouths.

Hickey Kiss
The object is not to draw blood, but to gently leave a mark that will prove your interlude was not a dream. This is often included in erotic foreplay.

Hostage Kiss
Cover your lips with tape and get your love's attention. When they come near, make noises like you're trying to tell them something and motion as if you can't get the tape off. Once they remove the tape from you to hear what you're trying to say tell them: "I've been saving my lips all day just for you!" Then kiss your love passionately!

Hot and Cold Kiss
Lick your partner's lips so that they're warm, and then gently blow on them. The sudden cold blast makes for a sensual explosion, and they will often try it on you next, as well as get very passionate.

Mistletoe Kiss
Surprise your lover by capturing them with a gentle holiday kiss under the mistletoe. This is also a good method for shyer individuals to steal a kiss from a potential lover.

Neck Nibble Kiss
Gently nibble up and down your partners neck. End with a gentle kiss on the lips.


Nip Kiss
This kiss can create a very erotic sensation. While kissing your partner, ever so gently nibble on their lips. You must be very careful not to bite to hard or hurt your partner. When done correctly, this kiss ignites wonderful sensations.


The Buzzing Kiss
Gently place your lips against your lover's neck , behind their ear. Now, send a shudder through their skin by gently growling and humming, vibrating your lips and cheeks as you do so. Move up and down the neck, over the bones of the face and lips. Stimulating and erotic when done correctly.


The Whipped Cream Kiss
Dip your finger into some cool whip or whipped cream of your choice. Lick it off slowly, then embrace your partner and kiss them deeply letting their tongue slip over yours for a wonderfully sweet kiss. It's very seductive and passionate.


Tiger Kiss
Quietly sneak up behind your partner making sure they do not know what you are going to do. Out of the blue, grab them and gently bite their neck. Make sure to get a few good growls in too. This will surely surprise them.



Vacuum Kiss
While kissing open-mouthed, slightly suck in as if you were sucking the air from your partners mouth. This is a playful kiss.


Wake Up Kiss
Before your partner awakes lean over and kiss their cheek and move over giving soft kisses until you reach their lips. Definitely a more than pleasant way to wake up!

11/8/09

The Art of Air Kissing Your Guests





















Air kissing is the act of greeting someone by making a kiss-like gesticulation into the air, while rubbing cheeks with each other. It is a typical trademark gesture of modern society, especially in Western countries.

The act of air kiss has been made very popular by the famous celebrities, who have to mix with people whom they do not know very well, in such cases air kiss is the best way to acknowledge the guests.

Some good tips on air kissing:

  • Awareness- Be sure that you know when to do an air kiss gesture. Mostly, a formal occasion like parties, reception, office meetings and weddings are the places where the social decorum of air kissing is practiced.
  • Observation- Observe other individuals in a party or get-together. See how the host or a friend is greeting various people, if majority of people are into air kisses, you can also follow the same. Also be sure to read their body language, do not try to air kiss, if the opposite person is more comfortable with a hand shake.
  • Posture- Remember, you always have to lean backwards if someone is about to give you an air kiss, and if you are initiating the air kiss, you have to lean forwards towards the person’s face.

Different countries follow different customs of air kissing. For instance, in France, people generally air kiss when they meet and at the time of leaving. In Poland air kissing sequence is repeated 3 times.

Anyways, such form of kissing is the best civilized form of greeting familiar strangers!

Things Which Can Add Spice to Your Kissing Session

Kissing is considered as the foreplay action of a sexual intercourse. But, if you don’t have any such intention, or the situation doesn’t allow you to indulge in sex, there are many other fun things you can do while kissing. And these things will help you to enhance your want for each other, without feeling the need of sexual climax.

For instance, it is a pleasurable thing to do lip biting while kissing. It can generate a wonderful sensation inside your body and you can see yourself asking for more from your partner. You can also learn naughty games to play while kissing. It includes passing candy back and forth or even an ice cube can be used for this.

It is completely natural that being a man you have an erection while kissing. If that is the case, you can tightly hold your partner and massage her genital area with your tool. It can bring ultimate pleasure for both of you. You can massage the back of your partner with your hands and she will definitely beg for more of the kissing.

You can break your kiss in between and explore other areas of your partner’s body with your tongue. The areas like neck, earlobes and armpits are sensitive enough to electrify your partner with sensation of your lips kissing them. Apart from lip biting while kissing, you can also bite on these areas or even such the fingers to keep the heat on.

One of the games to play while kissing is to use products like honey or ice-cream and spread them on your lips and allow your partner to suck them. All these things can give you immense pleasure, even if you don’t end up having a sexual intercourse

Preparing Your Girlfriend for First Passionate Kiss

The first kiss between opposite genders flames the fire of physical intimacy between two of them. While male partners are more inclined towards kissing, the female counterparts are reserved on this issue. However, that doesn’t mean that girls have no positive attitude towards this beautiful symbol of love. It might be the fear of kissing, which must be overcome to trigger the desire of love in them.

Taking the Initiative

It is the shy nature of women, which disallows them to kiss their partners. However, your right initiative at right time can help the women, who are afraid to kiss, to show their anticipation towards kissing.

Make Sure You Are Clean

Women have preferences for their men, which if not fulfilled, make them scared to kiss. A harshly grown beard or a bad breath may put off their mood. So, make sure you have a clean personality to prepare your girlfriend for kissing.

Right Atmosphere Can Help

It is important to create right atmosphere to make your girlfriend easy and shed away her fear of kissing. Music and exotic aromas can help you in this direction. How about a handful of candles to make the atmosphere calm and perfect for kissing?

Know About Past Experiences

Most of the girls are afraid to kiss, as they have bad experiences of enforced kissing with their past boyfriends. You can make them comfortable to share their experiences and convince them that every boy has a different perspective for kissing.

While following all these tips, you are required to be calm and passionate till your woman is no more scared to kiss. And your efforts will be paid off well in the climax.

11/7/09

Some facts and benefits of kissing

1.Those who kiss their partner goodbye each morning live five years longer than those who don’t.

2.Kissing is great for self-esteem. It makes you feel appreciated and helps your state of mind.

3.Kissing burns calories, 26 calories a minute and can double your metabolic rate. Research claims that three passionate kisses a day (at least lasting 20 seconds each) will cause you to loose an entire extra pound! It's time to start that kissing diet!

4.Kissing is a known stress-reliever. Passionate kissing relieves tension, reduces negative energy and produces a sense of well being, lowering your cortisol ‘stress’ hormone.

5.Kissing uses 30 facial muscles and it helps keep the facial muscles tight, preventing baggy cheeks! The tension in the muscles caused by a passionate kiss helps smooth the skin and increases the circulation.

6.Kissing is good for the heart, as it creates an adrenaline which causes your heart to pump more blood around your body. Frequent kissing has scientifically been proven to stabilize cardiovascular activity, decrease blood pressure and cholesterol.

7.Those who kiss quite frequently are less likely to suffer from stomach, bladder and blood infections.

8.During a kiss, natural antibiotics are secreted in the saliva. Also, the saliva contains a type of anesthetic that helps relieve pain.

9.Kissing reduces anxiety and stops the 'noise' in your mind. It increases the levels of oxytocin, an extremely calming hormone that produces a feeling of peace.

10.The endorphins produced by kissing are 200 times more powerful than morphine.

11.Our brains have special neurons that help us locate each others lips in the dark. (It's really true too! I've tried it!)

12.The first kiss ever shown in a movie was in 1896. The movie, was called The Kiss.

13.It is estimated that the average person will spend about 20,160 minutes kissing in their lifetime.

11/6/09

Different ways of kissing




You'll give an acquaintance a peck on the cheek, a first date a lingering kiss on the lips, and your spouse a passionate french kiss. Kissing is an expression of emotions whether that be friendship, love, or passion. There are so many different types of kisses to express these different emotinos and so many more different types of kisses that are just for pure fun and enjoyment. Read through this list of different types of kisses and pick a few to try with your sweetie.
Different ways of Kissing:

Aggressive Kiss
While kissing your partner, gently bite down on their lower lip and look up at them. Start sucking on the bottom lip to give them a great sensation.

All Over Kiss
Grab your partner gently, then begin kissing the forehead, moving down to the nose. Tenderly, with an aggressive feeling, give your partner your best kiss right on the lips. Next, move your way down and continue with your own imagination.

Angel Kiss
This is a sweet, comforting kiss. Gently and ever so lightly kiss your partner either on the eye lid or right next to the eyes.

Angel Wing's Kiss
Take a piece of ice and place it in the small of her back. Slowly move the ice up her back to her shoulder blades. End the kiss by gently sucking until the ice melts.

Animal Kisses
Prior to kissing, select a bunch of animal and write them down. As you kiss, select different animals and then kiss how you think that animal species kisses. The next animal is selected when the animal's kiss is achieved.

Back Kisses
Remove your partners shirt and have them lie down on their stomach. Sit comfortably over your partners lower back and start kissing from the neck all the way down their back, while softly licking & breathing where you have kissed. This will give your partner cold shivers and it is very exciting.

Bambi Kiss
A light lick on the side of the face.

Belly Button Kiss
Lightly kiss and blow on her belly button. It should give her the shivers and make her giggle.

Belly Button Kiss 2
Lift your shirt and your partners (no shirts work too). Place your belly button's against each other. You'll be at the perfect height for an intimate kiss.


Belly Button Lick
Get a yummy cream or drink (whipped cream, etc) and fill your girlfriend/boyfriends belly button with it and lick it out.

Belly Button Shot Kiss
Put some wine in your partners belly button, then use your tongue to get it out or you can gently suck it out. This is a sexy, fun kiss.

Belly Kiss
Get down on one knee. Softly lift your partners shirt to reveal a little bit of their belly, then kiss what is revealed. This kiss can lead to more.

Belly Ring Kiss
If your girl has a belly ring, this is a fun kiss. Get down on one knee and slowly lift her shirt to expose her belly button, kissing around her belly button area. Next, kiss directly on the belly button and softly take your tongue, running it slowly around her belly button. Doing this a few times will definitely turn her on.

Blow Kiss
While kissing with a little bit of tongue you blow into your partners' mouth causing there cheeks to poof up! Its so much fun and it'll make your partner giggle! Don't blow too hard!

Bottom Lip Kiss
While kissing your partner, gently suck on their bottom lip. If you can, slightly pull away with their lip while you suck on it. This is a very passionate kiss that is fun to do and usually leads to more intense kissing.

Breath Kiss
While kissing, pull back slowly and make your way to the person's cheek or neck, and tell them to sit still. Gently breathe out of your mouth on the cheek/neck, and listen to them giggle and groan with delight!

Bubble Bath Kiss
Fill the bath tub up with water and tons of bubble bath. While in the tub together, wash and kiss each other at the same time. You and your partner will both love it and it can lead to even more fun things.

Bubble Gum Kiss
Blow a bubble with your favorite bubble gum, then ask your partner to put his or her mouth over the bubble and start kissing.

Butterfly Kiss
With your faces less than a breath away, open and close your eyelids against your partners. If done correctly, the fluttering sensation will match the one in your heart.

11/5/09

How to Kiss Like a Porn Star

Step I

First and foremost, get to know your own mouth. Chapped lips and bad breath
are the quickest ways to ruin a kiss. Take a piece of floss and use it on each tooth. Now smell the floss. This is how your breath smells to the person you're kissing. If it reaks of rotting meat, floss twice daily and brush three times, rinsing with listerine. Kiss no one until you've solved this issue. If you're mouth gets dry to the point where white film gathers inside and at the corners, keep a bottle of water with you at all times to prevent disgusting white gunk which leads to bad breath.

Step II

The first kiss with a new person should typically not involve the tongue very much. This is the first step and should do little more than ignite a spark, leaving your lover wanting more. If you're a girl, spend the date drawing attention to your mouth by wearing a lip gloss that isn't sticky. You will look like a fool tossing your hair if it sticks to your lips. Lick and bite your lips occasionally to draw attention and casually bite or lightly suck on straws to draw the eye to your mouth. If you're a guy, find a reason to brush hair from her face near her mouth if possible, this will stimulate nerves in her mouth, drawing her attention to the electricity of your touch.



Step III

When it's time for the kiss, lean in and tilt your head to the right, lightly press your bottom lip between your date's lips and close your mouth around the lip. Lightly lick the inside of their top lip with your tongue while touching the base of their hairline on the back of the neck. This is a very sensitive area and causes goosebumps which will ignite your lover.


Step IV

Once you're accustomed to kissing this person and want to take it to the next step, use your tongue and teeth. Make sure you've kissed this person a lot and can judge their movements so that you don't chip a tooth or lick their nose.
Begin lightly (emphasis on lightly) sucking on lips and as you pull away, bite down LIGHTLY and drag your teeth across the lip as you pull away.
Making noise also helps and creates vibrations which send sexual signals and make the kiss more passionate.

Step V

Now to truly kiss like a porn star, tease your mate. Make them think you are going to kiss their mouth and then hesitate, lightly brushing your lips over theirs. Use your hands to pull them close and lean into the neck area, blowing light breaths over the nape of the neck. Lightly lick the area and then suddenly grip the person's head and quickly kiss their mouth, shoving your tongue half-way into their mouth, wrapping your lips around theirs. Let out a sigh as you do this, allowing them to feel you're passion. Kissing well means constantly changing the game. Try new ways of kissing often to keep your lover on his or her toes.